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Coach for the StagePaul H. Flowers Jr.

Wednesday, Oct 28 · noon CT

Benefits Are Blowing Up the Bottom Line

Twenty-five minutes on LinkedIn Live. Practice the opening, the three messages, a skeptical CFO, and the close on this phone. No account. The booth score stays on the device.

Hard stop

25:00. Cut extra questions before you cut the close.

Education only

Not legal, tax, or ERISA advice. Do not invent a number.

Two lines to fill

Why this matters to you, and how you got into the work. They stay blank until you write them.

Fiduciary

CFO / fiduciary benefits

  • More Power Than You Know
  • Hidden Healthcare Goldmine
  • Self-Funded Playbook 5-Day Plan
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Skills That Pay Forever

12 skills, loaded from config

Chapter titles are the display names. Drills in the booth point at these ids. A full score for every skill comes later.

  1. Emotional Intelligence

    01

    Know Yourself, Control Yourself — Mastering Emotional Intelligence

    Regulate emotion under pressure so presence stays steady.

    • Vocal calm under Hot Seat
    • recovery after stumble
    • no panic fillers
  2. Negotiation

    02

    How to Ask for What You Want and Get It — The Art of Negotiation

    Ask for the outcome you want with clear value and terms.

    • Clarity of ask
    • trade language
    • objection reframes
  3. Asking for Help

    03

    Real Ones Ask Questions — The Power of Seeking Help

    Invite input and partnership without undermining authority.

    • Audience invites
    • "what I need from you"
    • Q&A openness
  4. Proactivity

    04

    Don't Wait, Don't Wish, Do — Developing Proactive Habits

    Lead with action and ownership, not wishful framing.

    • Imperative verbs
    • next-step specificity
    • ownership language
  5. Consistency

    05

    Success Is a Daily Decision — Building Unshakeable Consistency

    Show repeatable cadence and reliable follow-through.

    • Session streak
    • score variance
    • promise→delivery in talk
  6. Time Management

    06

    Don't Let Time Use You — Mastering Time Management

    Hit length targets and allocate time to high-value beats.

    • Time vs target
    • section timing
    • rush/drag flags
  7. Delayed Gratification

    07

    Play the Long Game — Mastering Delayed Gratification

    Build the case before the ask; resist premature close.

    • Proof before ask
    • long-game framing
    • patience in Hot Seat
  8. Easy to Work With

    08

    Be the Person People Want Around — Becoming Easy to Work With

    Warm, collaborative tone that invites buy-in.

    • Softeners vs aggression
    • inclusive "we"
    • rapport openers
  9. Adaptability

    09

    Life Changes, So Should You — Developing Adaptability

    Adjust message live to audience pushback.

    • Hot Seat pivot quality
    • persona-fit rewrites
  10. Critical Thinking

    10

    Don't Be Fooled, Think for Yourself — Developing Critical Thinking

    Challenge assumptions; evidence over slogans.

    • Claim→evidence links
    • compliance flag avoidance
    • logic checks
  11. Communication

    11

    Say What You Mean, Mean What You Say — Mastering Communication

    One clear point, plain language, no fog.

    • One-sentence thesis in 60s
    • jargon density
    • Message Index
  12. Self-Discipline

    12

    Do It Anyway — Building Unbreakable Self-Discipline

    Deliver the hard line even when uncomfortable.

    • Completing tough asks
    • filler under pressure
    • finish rate